by Samir Selmanovic on March 18, 2013
Following is an article I have written as a guest writer for KidSpirit, a wonderful online magazine written by teens for teens. Enjoy.
More Than Spirituality
I grew up in a not-so-religious Muslim family, in an atheist country in the former Yugoslavia. In terms of history, stories, and religion, the Balkans were flammable. So, when at 17 I became a Christian, all hell broke loose.
My devastated parents recruited one of Europe’s best psychiatrists and 50 relatives to take their best shot at helping me get over my infatuation with religion. The ordeal went on from dawn to dusk, every day for two months. Religion was a crutch for the weak, they reminded me, the opiate of the masses. Even my former girlfriends were summoned to try to evoke sweet memories of my religiously unconstrained days and prevail over my heart.
They tried love, they tried threats. Eventually they resorted to isolation and I was expelled to the street and I did not see my mother and father for two years. I applied myself to my studies, returned to the tenuous atmosphere of my home, and after completing a structural engineering degree, I went to the United States to study psychology, theology, and then education. Eventually, I become a pastor in New York City and later moved to California where I co-founded a large young adult congregation. On this journey, I had access to high places and behind the curtain. It took me 15 years to find out that religion is as bad as my parents told me.
I found myself thoroughly disenchanted with Christianity. Religions, I realized, are God management systems that have compromised themselves in every way imaginable.
I hate religion. But I need it so that I can live deeply. Let me explain.
CONTINUE READING “More Than Spirituality”
by Samir Selmanovic on October 18, 2012
Letter to my friends, colleagues, and co-conspirators,
During the last several months I had the opportunity to meet, learn from, and collaborate with Michael Margolis, the founder of Get Storied Inc. These experiences have led to my acceptance of an offer for a full-time position as a Strategy and Operations Lead at Get Storied. This is an incredible match for my passion, background, skills, personality, and needs. I am excited, scared, and at peace, all at once!
I also want to update you on the status of my involvement with Faith House Manhattan, Citylights Community, and my independent consulting and speaking work.
Faith House has been undergoing a transition. As you might know, we have conducted our pilot immersion event this Summer and it has been a great success. We want to expand the program which, for now, we call Faith House Institute, taking groups of 10 to 15 people through an intensive 48 or 72 hour experience of religious life in New York City. We are about to offer custom made programs to institutions and groups. I would like to talk to you if you are interested to bring a group (more info HERE). Union Theological Seminary has offered us space for an office and partnership. My role at Faith House has been evolving from Founder, to President of the Board, to Executive Director. With this change, I will serve on the board and stay engaged for maximum impact, particularly in helping design and guide the immersion events. I hope you can participate! And thank you for your continual support.
In terms of my work with Cityligths Community, I will stay in the role of coordinator/director until the end of December. After that I will serve on the Citylights Leadership Team, fully invested in our growing community that is a lifeline for me and my family. I also hope to take up more volunteer teaching/preaching and service opportunities at Citylights.
My diverse consulting and speaking engagements will now almost exclusively serve the mission and calendar of Get Storied. I hope our paths will keep crossing. I will be adding inter-religious and cross-cultural aspect to its portfolio of engagements, expanding the work with non-profits in general and religious organizations in particular. Below is the summary of what we do.
Thank you for being an inspiration over the years,
Samir Selmanovic, New York City
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ABOUT GET STORIED INC.
Get Storied is a training and advisory company devoted to transformational storytelling. We work as trusted advisors to CMOs, CEOs, and leaders who need to reframe and redefine their message. As story architects we help clients accelerate their marketing and innovation efforts. As a learning institution, we teach thousands of change-makers the principles and skills of narrative intelligence.
Get Storied is devoted to the most important stories of our time — the cultural inflection points where change is inevitable. Every institution and industry now faces reinvention and has to learn to anticipate and align with its emerging future. We manage a growing portfolio of high-stakes engagements that touch on variety of themes including:
- The humanization of business
- Technology and global financial reform
- The future of information and learning
- Corporate social responsibility
- Re-defining the language of philanthropy
For a free e-book “Believe Me: A Storytelling Manifesto for Change-makers and Innovators” by Michael Margolis you can go to www.getstoried.com.
by Samir Selmanovic on September 19, 2012
Several months ago I had a privilege to preview an important new movie, Hellbound? directed by Kevin Miller, exploring the concept of Hell in Christian text, story, and life. The most interesting question that has transpired for me is “Can Christian story, minus Hell, capture human imagination?” This question does not have a simple answer. The breath and depth of commentary in the movie is immense and I highly recommend it to all Christians and their concerned friends or family
. This coming Friday, Sep 21, at 7pm, there will be New York City premiere in Village Cinema followed by a panel that I will be moderating. You are invited! Here are the interlocutors for the post-projection discussion:
FRANK SCHAEFFER is a New York Times bestselling author of more than a dozen books. Frank is a survivor of polio and an evangelical/fundamentalist childhood, an acclaimed writer who overcame severe dyslexia, a home-schooled and self-taught documentary movie director, a feature film director and producer of four low budget Hollywood features Frank has described as ‘pretty terrible,’ and an author of critically acclaimed fiction and nonfiction. Frank’s three semi-biographical novels about growing up in a fundamentalist mission: “Portofino,” “Zermatt” and “Saving Grandma” have a worldwide following and have been translated into nine languages. Jane Smiley writing in the Washington Post says of Frank’s memoirs “Crazy For God” and “Sex, Mom and God”: “[Schaeffer’s] memoirs have a way of winning a reader’s friendship… Schaeffer is a good memoirist, smart and often laugh-out-loud funny… Frank seems to have been born irreverent, but his memoirs have a serious purpose, and that is to expose the insanity and the corruption of what has become a powerful and frightening force in American politics… Frank has been straightforward and entertaining in his campaign to right the political wrongs he regrets committing in the 1970s and 80s… As someone who has made redemption his work, he has, in fact, shown amazing grace.”MICHAEL HARDIN is the co-founder and Executive Director of Preaching Peace, a non-profit based in Lancaster, PA whose motto is “Educating the Church in Jesus’ Vision of Peace.” An internationally known speaker, he is one of the earliest members of the Colloquium on Violence and Religion and is a co-founder of Theology and Peace, also based in the United States. Michael was educated at North Park Theological Seminary in Chicago and is a PhD candidate at Charles Sturt University in Canberra, Australia. He is the co-editor of Stricken by God?: Nonviolent Identification and the Victory of Christ (Eerdmans, 2007), Peace Be With You (Cascadia 2009), Compassionate Eschatology (Wipf & Stock, 2010), editor of Reading the Bible with Rene Girard (Wipf & Stock 2013) and author of the acclaimed The Jesus Driven Life (JDL Press, 2010). He is currently writing his latest book Lamb Up!: Where the Neo-Reformed Get it Wrong and Jesus Gets It Right. He has published over a dozen articles on the mimetic theory of Rene Girard in addition to essays on theology, spirituality and practical theology. With his wife Lorri, he has taken courses for the past decade on wilderness survival and Native American healing traditions. In addition to this, Michael has been involved in movie and video production and is a singer/songwriter.
KEVIN MILLER is an award-winning filmmaker who has applied his craft to documentaries, feature films and short film projects. Recent credits include spOILed, Sex+Money, With God On Our Side and Expelled: No Intelligence Allowed. Kevin’s work has taken him to over a dozen countries across five continents and has involved everything from urban spelunking under the streets of Moscow to interviewing war-criminals-at-large in the dusty, fly-infested markets of Sierra Leone. In addition to making films, Kevin teaches screenwriting at a number of film schools and conferences across North America and around the world. Kevin lives in Abbotsford, BC with his wife and four children.
Village Cinema: http://www.cinemavillage.com/chc/cv/show_movie.asp?movieid=2558
Official Movie Website: http://www.hellboundthemovie.com/
by Samir Selmanovic on April 10, 2012
BEING MAD AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT:
What the Occupiers and the Occupied
Can Learn from Interfaith Dialogue

Francisco “Pancho” Ramos Stierle meditates
as police surround the Occupy Oakland encampment
on Monday, Nov. 14, 2011 (Photo: Noah Berger)
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Thursday, April 26, 7pm
James Chapel, Union Theological Seminary
3041 Broadway, NYC
Dr. Samir Selmanovic, Christian pastor, activist, community engagement consultant, and author will reflect on the current negative experience of capitalism in the United States. He will share his experience and philosophy of religious pluralism and discuss how it demands progressives/liberals such as himself to engage “the other.” This will be followed by a panel discussion with diverse interlocutors and by sharing by all. The evening will be hosted by Paul Tillich Professor Paul Knitter.
Guest Panelists:
Monika Mitchell, CEO of Good-b (Good Business Int’l and co-author of “Conversations with Wall Street: The Inside Story of Financial Armageddon and How to Prevent the Next One” (2011)
Allison Burtch, Occupy Wall Street Journal, contributing editor
Rev. James H. Cooper, Rector of Trinity Wall Street Church
Join our discussion on Twitter at #BeingMad
Sponsored by UTS Interfaith Caucus and Students for Peace and Justice
by Samir Selmanovic on February 9, 2012
I will be leading a conversation with two amazing people, Dr. Michael Merrill of Van Arsdale, Jr., Center for Labor Studies and Carolyn Klaasen of Union Theological Seminary and a Protest Chaplain on the topic “Breaking Good: Why and How an Occupied Wall Street Could Join the Occupation?” It will be this Wednesday, Feb 15, at 1pm, with live audience (no RSVP necessary), online and on-demand. I hope to see you there, and send me some wisdom about what would you say on that topic, or ask.

by Samir Selmanovic on December 27, 2011
~ by Samir Selmanovic and Bowie Snodgrass (Huffington Post, 12/25/11)
We are coming to a realization that religious zealots cannot be fought with indifference. Extremists of all nationalities and religious persuasion feeding on prejudice, legislating exclusion, and resorting to violence cannot be prevailed upon by people with less passion. Telling them to “cool down” and to “be moderate” will not do it. We must allow fires greater than theirs to arise. Our passion for a whole and interdependent word must rise above their passion for a segregated and zero-sum world.
In Faith House Manhattan, a non-profit inter-religious “community of communities,” we believe that the time of isolated faith is over. We believe that to know who I am, I must also know who you are. For three years now we have hosted more than 60 Living Room gatherings where people can experiences the practices of another religion (or path, including atheism). We invite all to join our “co-laboratory” of interdependence: “Experience your neighbor’s faith, deepen your own.”
Our call is to get radical. Very radical. We hold that in today’s world, religious people have to remap their reality to include — in tension and in gratitude — ‘the other.’ While our ancestors may have fought for independence, ours is the great struggle for interdependence. ‘The other’ is not over there, but all around us. While we have been conceiving of the world in vertical terms (whose party is better, whose institution is larger, whose nation is stronger, whose god is bigger), the world is becoming increasingly horizontal, and wonderfully so. Can we learn to be a part of the whole?
This past year, Faith House started a new program with four religious communities in Manhattan, who were part of a “Tour Bus” with reciprocal visits to each of our main religious gatherings. We brought people together to trespass imaginary boundaries while preserving the real ones. From an experience of worship at a Hindu temple, to a Jewish Shabbat service, to a Sufi Zikr, to midweek “Space for Grace” at a major Protestant church — either as “Interfaith 101″ or an opportunity for seasoned pilgrims to be hosts or guests in their own setting — this seven-week adventure was a unique New York City experience.
– read the entire article on Huffington Post and comment click HERE –
by Samir Selmanovic on August 24, 2011
NOTE: DUE TO THE WEATHER CONDITIONS, THIS EVENT HAS BEEN POSTPONED FOR A DAY LATER. IT WILL TAKE PLACE ON MONDAY, AUG 29.
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by Samir Selmanovic on April 24, 2011
My book is now available in softcover! It is blue, it has a new subtitle “… How Islam, Atheism, and Judaism Made Me a Better Chritian.” All else is good ole’.

by Samir Selmanovic on April 19, 2011
From my Twitter account, April 17 afternoon: http://twitter.com/#!/SamirSelmanovic
Event description at www.faithhousemanhattan.org
Exploring meaning of freedom at 3rd Faith House Passover Seder at progressive St. Francis Xavier Roman Catholic church, more than 200 of us!
To dance or to cry? Jews know music and will keep us tonight in this dilemma of life until we burst into both!
Rabbi David Ingber evokes the meaning of Palm Sunday and affirms Rebbe Jesus as a holy teacher of freedom.
Biblical concept of hope where humans must act to have freedom has been supplanted by passive notion of optimism.
We are born with gift off freedom inside of us. When world oppresses us there is a way back to who we are: 15 Passover steps back to freedom
Time is not cyclical but open. Future is unknown and dependent on human action. Freedom starts with freedom of time.
Close your eyes, imagine you are in total and cold dark. You are going to pieces, there is no hope. You are a slave.
On your lips there is salt from tears of your enslavement. We dip green leaves into salty water recognizing that new shoots of life do come.
Hebrew word for bread is the same word for brokenness. Hasidic masters say that we cannot live without either of them.
We won’t be fooled by movements which free only some of us & in which our so-called “freedom” rests upon enslavement or embitterment of others
Slaves just say ‘it is what it is.’ The most insidious form of slavery is when we stop asking questions.
Questions are beginning of freedom, like ‘why are rich getting richer and poor getting poorer,’
Hebrew word Egypt means ‘narrow place.’ In Jewish mystical tradition narrow place of throat is a holder of bondage. Speech brings redemption.
Two women saving baby Moses by subverting the edict is the 1st historical record of civil disobedience. From then on human story shifts from might to right
“God help us dream new paths to freedom so that the next sea-opening is not also a drowning, so that our singing is never again their wailing”
Wow, the whole crowd of Jews, Christians, Muslims is bursting into singing, clapping with raised hands singing Dayenu (Enough)!
Breaking of Matzah bread is like breaking the tablets of the law. No absolute can withstand, all are idols. No religion or system has arrived
Here is a pic, 250 of us singing at the end of Passover Seder on Palm Sunday! Heavenly.
Ooops forgot the pic: yfrog.com/h7yuiylj
Rabbi David finishes with quoting St Augustine, freedom of finding ones rest in who we are made for and with New Testament and Rumi. G’night